05/19/2007: "Honor Killing"

It has taken a horrific event to bring my blog back on line. The blog looks somewhat different, at least for now, but as time permits, I'll get a little more style into the format. Meanwhile, the compelling reason for bringing Inside/Out back is the so-called "honor killing" recently in the news. I will not recommend that you watch the phone camera video of a pretty 17-year-old girl being beaten to death in a northern Iraq street by her relatives. The video is not for the faint of heart. Dua Khalil, a Kurd, was beaten and stoned in front of police officers because she was seen with a Sunni Muslim man. Her only sin was falling in love with someone from outside her faith. Or perhaps she became too westernized. Since she was killed on the 7th of April, honor killings have increased.
If you have read my blog before, you know my aversion to the war in Iraq and to the un-presidential fool who led us into it. To be sure, Bush's endless, illegal, lost war did not bring honor killing to Iraq. It's been a custom there for centuries. But we should stop and take a lesson from the tragedy of this young woman's death. This is a culture (or group of cultures, really) unimaginably different from ours in so many ways. These cultures have lived and fought side by side in that part of the world almost since the beginning of civilization. It is foolish and arrogant of America to believe that we can transplant our style of democracy (enfeebled and un-democratic as it is these days) into an area that only feels comfortable in a theocracy. The government that we have installed has not one woman in it. I have just read that some of Dua Khalil's relatives have been arrested, but her brutal death should be a signpost for us all. It's meaning is that we should leave before it is too late, because we will not change these people. There is little we can do there but sponsor more brutal deaths of our young men and women, and of innocent Iraqis.
Replies: 8 Comments
on Sunday, August 19th, eieio said
That's a very interesting sentiment coming from someone who would so obviously never live their own life wearing a sack over their heads. How is its alright for you to buck the system, but not them? So what about the honor killings in Britain? The US? You've been around long enough... how is what we see in that area of the world any different than the Nazis? You ma'mm, are an embarrassment.
on Saturday, August 18th, DEZ said
Just die already.
on Saturday, August 18th, MisterPundit said
Yes, let's leave Iraq and let the place descend into chaos and hell. Like Mamie insinuated, why should those backward brown people have a democracy anyways? Who the fuck do they think they are to have what we have? Besides, honor killings are only "bad" if you actually get to hear about it. Without a free press, we'd be able to pretend that shit 'aint happening. Yeah!
on Wednesday, June 27th, Mia said
I read your book Playing the Field. I am amazed at the marvelous pictures you present today on your blog. Wonderful to see you looking so lovely & in such innovative poses. Saw you early clips -- you are something special. Saw your clip with Pamela Anderson -- incredible. Will be checking your blog often -- you're an inspiration. Happy returns & thanks for sharing your thoughts ... agree we need to get out.
on Friday, May 25th, Jonathan said
I'm sure this horrified everyone who read about this beating. NOW..the thought..Next time your temper urges you to sound off to someone i.e. driver,salesperson,waiter or a child..STOP..don't plant those seeds. You have the power to spread JOY. Everything comes back and you will be better off getting your share of JOY returned.
on Tuesday, May 22nd, Jo said
Will human beings ever stop using their religions as a crutch for bad behavior??
Asshole behavior is asshole behavior! Period!!! I read somethig the other day that really made a valid point. It read: Isn't it amazing, all the mayhem that we humans create by warring over whose invisible God is greater.

Religions seem so strange to me....my cat knows how to enjoy life better then some humans. When he is licking his nuts and taking in some sun on a nice day, I seriously doubt he is thinking about which God is better.
on Tuesday, May 22nd, Bob said
Welcome back, Mamie!
Thank you -- and stay dangerous!
on Monday, May 21st, Tiger said
Mamie has it right! Get out now!